Our young women's division members, whose lives sparkle with dazzling brilliance,
are the diamonds of Soka Gakkai. The realm of the Soka Gakkai and Nichiren
Daisonin's Buddhism is one where women are respected and valued to the
most.
(Photo & words by Daisaku Ikeda)
File 006: January 2007
Mylene Grace Sia
(YWD District Chief)
This month we interviewed Miss Mylene Grace D. Sia, District Chief of Cebu
Chapter.
She has admirably overcome various hardships such as familial and financial
problems, illness and severe injuries suffered in a traffic accident through
her faith in the Daishonin's Buddhism and the support and encouragement
of her family and fellow SGI members.
at the Grand Culture Center in Tagaytay
in Manila for the 40th Anniversary of
Philippine Kosen-rufu, 2004
Q & A Interview
Q1. Please share your experience that has deepened your faith.
I used to live alone in Manila before, not knowing anyone in the SGI organization there and was concerned more about my work and having a great time.
One day I felt a strong pain in my abdomen which was later diagnosed as
the rupture of the appendix. Being alone, I chanted daimoku by myself,
and then underwent surgery.
Later, however, I found out that the pre-operation diagnosis was wrong
and that instead of the appendix, it was a cyst in my left ovary that had
ruptured; the doctor had cut off my left ovary, which was quite a shock
for a woman.
The doctor explained that I have a recurring endometriosis*, which gave me something to think about. However, I still did not attend
activities in Manila; it had become my habit to just go to work and then
go home straight.
The pain in my abdomen recurred 16 months after my first surgery when I was at home with my family. The doctor diagnosed it as gall bladder stones and because of the possibility of having adhesion, the doctor recommended yet another surgery.
This time I was not alone but my family and members were with me and chanted
for me during my surgery. The operation was successful and the doctor's
diagnosis was all correct.
This experience made me realize how important correct practice is; before
and during the first surgery, I only practiced for myself and was lacking
in my activities for others and in my Buddhist study; while in the second
one, my family and members were with me in practicing.
The consequences of the first and second surgery were obvious: with the
first one, the doctor's diagnosis was wrong and my recovery was not good;
but with the second operation, although my practice was not that strong,
I had the support of my family and fellow members, thus the diagnosis was
correct, my recovery was very fast, and the doctor put me on medication
for my endometriosis which is now completely cured.
Since then I have promised myself that I shall practice my faith correctly
and do as much as I can to help all the other Youth Division members.
* endometriosis
A condition in which the tissue that normally lines the uterus
grows in other areas of the body, causing pain, irregular bleeding,
and possibleinfertility (Medical Plus Medical Encyclopedia, http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/000915.htm)
Q2. Please tell us about any SGI activity into which you have put most
of your effort.
I have been taking the lead in the monthly Wisdom Hunters Activity in my Rosal district for two years, in which we read the literary works and discuss the contents based on my questions. I encourage each of the members to speak out and express themselves, under the rule that regardless of whatever one's answer may be, we should respect it.
The aim of this activity is to encourage the youth division to read and
explore literary works. I started this activity because Sensei often encourages
us to study hard and read the great literature around the world; he himself
cites numerous great figures and literary works around the world in his
speeches that we often do not know of.
However, we tend to focus more on just Buddhist studies and do not take
time for these types of works. Reading these works will make us more well-rounded
persons, increases our vocabularies, learn more about life and a lot of
other things.
Q3. What is your favorite passage of Gosho or Sensei's guidance that you
cherish in your heart?
I would like to introduce two of sensei's guidance: the former one encourages
me whenever I feel that I reach an impasse;
the latter one does whenever I feel affected by the circumstances.
"We often hear people say that they
aren't capable. But this is a defeatist attitude.
If you feel you aren't capable, then
tap into the great reservoir of potential that lies inside you.
Since we embrace the Daishonin's Buddhism,
we have recourse to daimoku.
If we chant daimoku to the Gohonzon,
we can bring forth all the ability and strength we will ever need."
"It is not a question of your environment
or those around you, nor what the organization or leaders may be like.
To be swayed by such externals is pointless. It all comes down to one person: You.
What matters is that you become a brilliant
beacon, shining with joy and happiness and live your life with confidence
and courage. If you shine with
radiant light, there can be no darkness in your life."
Q4. What guidance of Sensei keeps you going?
"People who wake up with a mission are the greatest."
SGI members are like that. What makes my life truly happy is the fact that Sensei is my mentor, I am an SGI member, and I have an opportunity to change the destiny of my country. These are the greatest treasures of my life.
Q5. Please tell us about your personal dream for future or aspiration
in life.
To be the best I can be (at work, as a daughter, as a sister, in everything!).
To be able to fulfill my parent's expectations such that they can be proud
to have a daughter like me.
To show my parents how much I appreciate everything that they have done
for me.